By Nikunja Vilasini Dasi
I grew up thinking that I had to be the best—in the classroom, in extramural activities, and in everything else—to be successful in life. Although I excelled in most of what l did and was at the top of my class, the unimaginable day came when a new boy joined my class, and I became second best. This was my first lesson in recognising that no matter how materially accomplished I may become, there will always be someone better, someone ahead, someone wiser and stronger, someone more competent and expert, and someone more spiritually evolved. As my abilities, talents, and even spiritual pursuits began to pale against others, it dawned on me what “best”actually means. It all started when I realised that life didn't go according to my plans, that fate could snatch away my dreams, and that I couldn't control situations and circumstances. Sometimes I lost confidence and strength and wallowed in selfpity. Was this the best way to respond according to Krishna’s advice in the Bhagavad-gita?